Saturday, December 08, 2007

"Oh, What a Night"! Back from seeing Clay

Hello everyone,

We got back from the States late this afternoon, after a long drive back from seeing Clay in concert last night! What a night... there were so many firsts, it's hard to know where to begin. For starters:

- this was my first Clay Christmas concert (I've seen him only two other times: during the Jukebox Tour, and during this past summer's An Evening with Clay Aiken tour - but never during one of his Christmas tours)
- for the first time in my life (yes, it's true), I used (our new) digital camera
- this was my sweetie's first Clay concert ever

Before

We arrived late at the pre-party, which was a real shame, but there was no helping it. We just didn't leave home early enough. So I didn't get much of a chance to get to know other fans attending the concert there, but there will always be next time. Plus, we have the Internet to get to know each other, now that I have put some names to faces - both real names and screen-names.

I was absolutely amazed by the efforts the party organizers put into everything. A beautiful room in a local pub/restaurant, nicely decorated, with Clay's lovely voice in the background, gifts, a great dinner, a silent auction, fun, games and more! Kudos to everyone who worked so hard to prepare the party, with my apologies for not being there on time.

After the dinner party, everyone trotted down the street to the Palace Theater, a historic building with a stunningly beautiful interior. What we first saw from a distance warmed our hearts: And then, came this moment - his name in lights! And closer still... The moment was finally here - seeing Clay again, this time on a more serious occasion than the two other occasions when I had seen him live.

During

The two-hour concert flew by, of course. It seemed to me we were there maybe 30 minutes, and then all of a sudden, he was singing All is Well, and that was it... The arrangements were perfect and Clay was in fine form, as usual. That voice is always such a surprise to me, the richness, the depth, the beauty of it. The way it stirs my heart, reverberating so deep inside. I know his voice, inside and out. Yet everytime, I am bowled over again when I hear him. I listen to a huge variety of singers/musicians, all kinds of music, from pop to classical to hard rock and metal. Yet each time I come back to Clay, I am overwhelmed by the wisdom and purity he shares with us in those golden notes. To me, Clay is the finest male vocalist around today, hands down. And what a joy he was last night.

Christmas classics, some woven into medlies, some sung in full, some Clay alone, others with his accompanying singers, Angela Fisher and Quiana Parlor - two extraordinary talents themselves. With classical orchestral accompaniment. Very beautiful. Other than that, visually the show was quite sombre - everyone in elegant black, Clay dashing in his black suit and tie, and his coal-coloured shirt. For those of you who like Clay in glasses, you would have been happy yesterday: he was wearing his rimless glasses, which to me, make him look so distinguished - like a wise, favourite teacher. The blond highlights in his light-brown hair, parted to the side. Sweet Clay.

I was wondering how the Christmas stories written by fans, would fit into the evening. And I have to say that Clay is a masterful producer, because each of the four stories was perfectly woven into the show. And what moving stories they were! One humorous and whimsical (a Jewish little girl who was curious about Christmas, and went to meet Santa for herself), one full of a sad strength through grief (a woman who lost her adult son in a car accident, a week before Christmas), the other two told of the losses, yet small joys that can be found in the most unexpected places (a young woman travelling in Europe, far from her family yet finding Christmas in a country church in a tiny village in England; and another young woman having faced many lonely childhood Christmases, celebrating the holiday in an atmosphere of surprising joy, with an elderly woman she was caring for). I very much enjoyed the stories and am so proud and touched by what those fans chose to share with all of us.

Clearly, this concert and this tour are more serious than Clay's summer tours. Like many, I somewhat missed his playful banter with the audience, but regardless, this show worked and was a piece of art and pure joy, as it was.

I'm going to put up some of the pictures I took, but like I said above, be forewarned! They are completely newbie pix, and quite blurry; it was my first time ever using a digital camera... That being said, here goes, for posterity - and for my own archival history!

And for a bird's eye view of the stage:

My sweetie was a Clay-virgin and I was wondering how he would enjoy (or not) the show. He enjoyed it quite a bit, and was impressed with Clay's rich voice, professionalism, producing talents and his commitment to encouraging local performers wherever he goes. He's not exactly Clayverted, but it did go over well with him! And God bless him, he accompanied me, driving the 5 hours it took to get there, and 5 back today. He was serene about being one of only three men among 40-some women at the pre-party, and one of a very few men at the concert itself. He got asked regularly things like: "were you dragged here?", "you didn't come to the concert alone?" and he took it all in stride. Perhaps he did it for me, since today is my 44th birthday. He wanted to make me happy - and he succeeded, once again, as he so often does!

After

After the concert, my sweetie found it very cold outside, so he decided to go back to the hotel rather than wait at the buses, as I planned to do. I saw quite a number of husbands leaving at that point, as the diehard fans (mostly women) went out to stand and wait by Clay's buses. I was more than prepared: double pair of socks, hat (I never wear hats), warm gloves, scarf, my heavy winter coat, wool skirt and jacket... I got ready to dig in and enjoy some waiting time chatting with other fans in the line. And enjoy it I did... for a very long time! It was actually a lot of fun, talking with and meeting other fans, sharing our histories with Clay, discussing the concert, his music, him, joking with the people there. Then Quiana and Angela came out of the theater and directly over to some fans! That was very nice of them - Angela autographed a sheet of paper an excited little girl had brought with her. Quiana chatted with a group of young fans. They both stayed around quite a while until they became chilly themselves, and headed over to one of the buses. We also saw Jesse (Vargas, Clay's pianist/conductor/music arranger) and Sean (McDaniel, Clay's drummer) head over to the buses, stopping on the way to spend some time with the Vargas girls (Jesse fans - hi girls!).

There were two doors out of the theater where we were, each one close to one of the two buses. We were pretty sure which one Clay would come out of, and waited hopefully, a hundred people or so. For the first hour... when nothing happened, and we saw pizzas being carried into the theater door, a number of frozen people gave up and left. Then fifty or so of us waited some more, spending the time yacking and sharing. Quite a while later - still no sign of Clay, though lots of comings and goings of Jerome, Clay's bodyguard and Jamie (?) and/or Mary (?), Clay's assistants. Still we toughed it out, hoping for a glimpse, a smile, a wave. None of us expected Clay to go down the line shaking hands, as he often does during his summer tours. It was too cold, and being flu season, not the best idea for Clay, so I fully approve. But a least a flash of that smile, a "hello"? We hoped, and waited.

Almost two and a half hours after the concert ended, a couple drove by in their car, saying that had glimpsed Clay being whisked out of the second theater door, behind Jerome, and onto his bus, with only a small word to the five or so fans who happened to be at that end of the line. Some fans I saw were hurt, some angry. Personally, I found myself to be feeling quite zen about the whole thing. I had spent a late evening with people who are touched in different ways by Clay, and I thoroughly enjoyed it. I didn't see Clay or get to say "thank you", but I feel it is his right to greet his fans, or not, whenever he wants. If it happens - great. If it doesn't - it's not a big deal. It would perhaps have been nice if one of his fellow tour people had let us know that he wouldn't be stopping to say hello, so we didn't keep waiting for nothing. But I don't regret a minute I spent out there, beside Clay's buses! Things happen for a reason, and I was able to shake Clay's hand this past summer, but I couldn't say hello this time - and that's fine.

Well, I will undoubtedly remember something else to share with you, but for now, that's all. For those of you attending concerts to come, enjoy! Take whatever comes with an open heart, and you will be pleasantly surprised, no matter what happens!

-- ClayKat
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Friday, December 07, 2007

Clay concert tonight! On my way...

Hello everyone,

The day is here! Today my sweetie and I whisk ourselves off for a car-trip south of the border to see Our Man Clay. I can't wait! I'll tell you all about the concert when I get back...

-- ClayKat


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Saturday, December 01, 2007

The circle of giving through Clay

Hello everyone,

Yesterday was Clay's 29th birthday. Now, we all knew that. But did you know some of the initiatives fans took to wish Clay a happy birthday? Here are just two of them, and they are wonderful! Make me proud to be a part of the Clay nation.

An Online Fan Club member came up with the idea of collecting new books to be donated to a Christmas drive for children, in honour of Clay's birthday. The drive is in Kalamazoo, Michigan, where Clay sang last night - and apparently the books were piled people-high in the lobby of the venue, as fans brought in box after box! Congratulations to the fan (you know who you are!) who came up with this amazing idea, got people organized, alerted the local drive, asked the venue if it would be workable (they responded with an enthusiastic "yes") and made it all happen, with her supporting crew. I heard that as of last night, there were over 1,200 books gifted, as well as more than $600 in gift cards for purchasing more books!

Over on The Clayboard, members set a goal to raise enough money by Clay's birthday ($10,000) to fund a summer camp for inclusion, part of the Bubel-Aiken Foundation's work. You can imagine the outcome: of course, Clayboarders came up with almost $12,000 for Clay's birthday, surpassing their goal.

It's an endless circle of giving in the Clay nation: Clay has given - and continues to give - so much to us, his fans. He gives to the community (through, among other things, the Bubel-Aiken Foundation) and to the world (through UNICEF and of course, his voice). He makes us want to be better people, so we give to our communities, to him, to each other - among other things, through initiatives such as the two described above. What can be better than that? In my opinion, life does not get any better than in moments such as those, in love and solidarity and tribute given in such beautiful ways.

What a tremendous way to start off the Christmas season!

And now for another pleasant way to enjoy the season: check out these pictures from last night's concert! Thanks to toni7babe and jtgranny:





Peace to all of you,

-- ClayKat

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Friday, November 30, 2007

Happy 29th Birthday, Clay!

Dear Clay,

The joy and peace you bring to my life are immeasurable.

I thank the powers that be that you came into this world 29 years ago today.

I wish you much joy, peace and happiness in your life; today, for the coming year and for many more to come. Looking forward to seeing you a week from today!

Happy birthday dear Clay! I can't wait to see your reaction to the surprise fans have prepared for you in Kalamazoo this evening. :-) You are going to love it!

-- ClayKat


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Friday, November 23, 2007

Trepidation, nerves, excitement! Clay's coming up soon...

Hello everyone,

The suspense is getting to me...

As I await for clews (Clay-news) on whether:
  1. my story has been chosen for the concert I will be attending in two weeks
  2. my name will be picked for a meet and greet
... well, my middle-aged heart is pitter-pattering in ways it hasn't done for a few years now.

It doesn't help that Clay has blogged quite often in recent weeks, giving fans feedback on his progression through the thousand-plus stories of ours he has been reading - and each time I have realized that my story is the kind of story he is looking for... A gal goes quickly into fantasy-land! I've already been on that stage in my mind - not that I like stages, but lordy what would I give to be onstage with Clay Aiken.

Or anywhere close to that young man with the wise soul, the sparkling smile and silken voice. I would love to just thank him, especially for the joy he brings to my life in so many ways.

In one of his recent blogs, Clay told us to prepare in a certain way for his concerts, in case our story is chosen. And I'm actually thinking of going out this evening to get what I would need - in case mine is chosen! But then, perhaps I would be jinxing myself if I did so!

All I can say is - I'm going to have tears of joy for whoever is chosen for either the meet and greet or the story-reading - and I am so looking forward to his upcoming concert. It is the day before my birthday too, and I can think of no better gift than seeing Clay again, for my third time ever.

On top of it all, my sweetie will be going with me, to his first Clay concert! That is a source of happiness, and of trepidation too - will he like Clay? I know he likes Clay's music and he admires the person that Clay is, but he is nowhere near the fan I am, so how will he like Clay in concert? I believe he will thoroughly enjoy it. Over the years, we have heard stories of some sceptical people, forced by family members to accompany loved ones to a Clay concert, and who have found his concerts to be one of the best they had ever attended! I am so hoping that will be the case for my sweetie. No matter what, I love him for coming with me and for being happy for me - because I will be happy seeing Clay again, no matter what.

Good luck to all of you who have submitted stories and/or submitted your name for a meet and greet! Can't wait to hear live on Monday night about the kickoff of this Christmas tour.

Take care,

-- ClayKat

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Thursday, November 08, 2007

My story's in... finally

Hello Clay fans,

Well, let's see... I've known now for over a month, that I wanted to submit a Christmas story to Clay's upcoming Christmas in the Heartland tour contest. So when did I submit it? Last night, just a few hours before the 11:59 p.m. EST deadline for the city where I'll be seeing Clay. So much for good intentions! Oh well, at least it's in, finally.

It was much harder to write than I had expected. After all, I love to write. Perhaps it was because I chose to write about something very real and raw, some sad Christmas memories. I end my story on a positive note, because now Christmas is a happy time of the year for me, but bringing back up some painful memories had its effect on me, such that the actual writing draaaaagged on.

How has your story-writing been? I can't wait to see what Clay will do with these stories of ours, how he will incorporate them into his show scenario. And it makes me happy just thinking of the joy some fans will experience, being asked to read their story on stage, with Clay!

(Of course, one of those fans will be me! Here's hoping!)

-- ClayKat

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Sunday, October 07, 2007

Clay's Christmas challenge... let's get writing

Hello everyone,

As an official fan club member, it is always exciting to discover that Clay has blogged. We love to hear what he has been up to, and read what he has been thinking. And now Clay has given us a wonderful challenge: to write up, in 20 sentences at most, our Christmas memories. He will read all entries and select three from each concert of his upcoming Christmas in the Heartland tour. The authors will be invited up on stage to read their entries.

Oh. My. Goodness.

No way I'm passing up this opportunity:

- I love the talented and wonderful person that is Clay, so I wouldn't miss any chance to actually be near him
- Christmas has always been an emotional time for me - for most of my 43 years, a time of challenging sadness; but for the last 13 years, with my sweetie: a time of love and closeness. I have lots to say there!
- Clay has been a big part of the reason that I now like and really enjoy Christmas
- I love to write
- I love Clay - did I say that?

We can submit as many different entries as we like for each concert we are planning to attend (one in my case). I just brainstormed and came up with 12 ideas already... so in the next couple of weeks, here I come Clay - you'll be hearing from me!

Lordy, the thought of being selected, having Clay read my name and call me up on stage... it's almost too much excitement to think about. Well, one step at a time.

Let's get writing, Claymates! Good luck to one and all,

-- ClayKat

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Saturday, September 15, 2007

Cute and sexy Clay slideshow

Hello Clay fans,

And now for some hawt pix of our favourite singer... Enjoy!

-- ClayKat



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Sunday, September 02, 2007

Clay slideshow - summer 2007 pictures

Hello everyone,

I recently found a neat little free widget service which allows one to make an online slideshow out of photos. So I thought I would test it out with some of my favourite pictures of Clay from this summer's tour.

Enjoy!



My thanks to all the clack gatherers who took these pictures and shared them with us online.

-- ClayKat

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Friday, August 31, 2007

Let's blog about Clay today, World Blog Day

Hello everyone,

Blog Day 2007 Today is the third World Blog Day, so I couldn't pass up the opportunity to talk, once again, about my favourite singer and one of my favourite role models: Clay Aiken. Here's what the organizers/initiators of this Day say about it:

What is BlogDay?

BlogDay was created with the belief that bloggers should have one day dedicated to getting to know other bloggers from other countries and areas of interest. On that day Bloggers will recommend other blogs to their blog visitors. With the goal in mind, on this day every blogger will post a recommendation of 5 new blogs. This way, all blog readers will find themselves leaping around and discovering new, previously unknown blogs.

Now, I get that the idea is to get to know five previously unknown (to onesself) bloggers. I will partially do that, but I also can't resist sharing some of my current favourite Clay blogs, because they're just so very good.

Here's what is suggested to do, for those of you who want to join in the fun and blog today (whether about Clay or not):


BlogDay posting instructions:


1. Find 5 new Blogs that you find interesting
2. Notify the 5 bloggers that you are recommending them as part of BlogDay 2007
3. Write a short description of the Blogs and place a link to the recommended Blogs
4. Post the BlogDay Post (on August 31st) and
5. Add the BlogDay tag using this link: http://technorati.com/tag/BlogDay2007 and a link to the BlogDay web site at http://www.blogday.org

Here are the 5 blogs I have chosen to share with you. Enjoy!

1. Clay's Daily Double (my favourite)

My #1 source of information, links, clack and everything else on Clay - I highly recommend it. Sometimes I think the gals at CDD know what Clay's up to before he does himself! Last year, Clay's Daily Double was named the Best Clay Aiken Website 2006 by the Clammy Awards, a well-deserved recognition.

2. The NeutralZone (new to me - I like what I've read)

The NeutralZone is a gathering place to discuss Clay Aiken’s music, and other topics of interest, with common sense and common decency. We would like posters to be able to share ideas and opinions, both positive and negative.

I like that this blogger has a very respectful way of allowing dissent on anything, including anything-Clay. I of course love Clay, but he is also a human being, not perfect, so I think it is courageous of this blogger to open up their blog to different ideas and opinions, while clearly stating that disrespect will not be allowed.

3. Excuse Me While I Take A Moment

Well, who in the online Clay fandom doesn't know Jemock, author of this blog? This fan has a quick wit, an incredible sense of humour and she candidly shares her thoughts about Our Man. If you can read one of her posts without smiling - or more like it, cracking up hysterically - well... I wouldn't know what to say to you!

4. WebWeaver's World (I've visited before, but clearly not often enough)

A blog about my passions. May include some or all of the following: geek stuff (web design & development, CSS, accessibility, usability), environmental activism, my adopted home of New Zealand ('cos it's so totally wonderful), international & green politics (rants from a left-wing perspective), gardening, cats, literature, rugby, and my Teevy boyfriend, Clay Aiken.

I enjoy the diversity of blogging subjects of this blogger. She integrates her passion for Clay into different aspects of her life, and she has many interests - check her out.

5. All That Is Clay Aiken - The Voice, The Heart, The Man

Why this blog? Just because I like it. The blogger enjoys Clay and posts often - which is a good thing in the coming-and-going world of blogging where some remain dormant for years...

So go check out some Clay fan blogs! There are lots out there! Enjoy. And happy Blog Day 2007!

-- ClayKat

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Sunday, August 26, 2007

Friendships and joy through Clay

Hello everyone,

Summer's drawing to a close, and Clay's tour - officially called "An Evening With Clay Aiken" (but unofficially: "Between a Soft Rock and a Hard Place Tour") - ended in Orlando, Florida a week ago today. Has it really only been a week? It feels like much longer ago that I was attending online cellcerts (CELLphone conCERTS) and hearing what witty, hilarious and/or touching thing Clay was doing or saying at a particular concert.

I feel fortunate to have been able to see one concert this summer (see my concert recap here) and I hope to be able to attend one of his upcoming winter concerts not too far from me, in December.

The joy that Clay brings to my life is difficult to describe. There is, of course, his Voice. In my opinion, (one of) the strongest male vocalist around today. There is no other I hear who moves me so much - to love, to ache, to cry... to feel. There are incredible voices out there, but Clay is in a league of his own.

And then, there is his personality and his charisma: Clay's charming self-deprecatory banter, his goofiness, his ability to laugh at the small things in life and not take himself too seriously, his all-encompassing and focused attention to the person he is with, his love and respect for all human beings, no matter our colour, gender, age, disAbility, size...

His compassion and social activism, well, there's no question he wins me over there. He is committed to working for inclusion, particularly inclusion of children who happen to have an intellectual disability and are marginalized because of this, but who are nevertheless children, deserving of love and inclusion in all aspects of life.

And last but not least, Clay gives me joy through the connections I have made with other Clay fans. I guess I started this blog almost two years ago now, for two reasons: to connect with other Clay fans, and to express my feelings about Clay using my favourite medium: the written word. Now, my blog isn't the biggest or most-visited Clay fan blog or site, for sure, but I have "met" other fans through this, as well as through Clay's official online fan club. I visit the fan club's message boards, and occasionally, other boards such as The Clayboard, but somehow for me, what I like best is to chat live with other Clay fans.

Almost a year ago now, the online fan club set up a new feature: a chat room. It didn't take me long to knock on the door, go in and get to know a bunch of regular online chatters. Mostly women, of all ages and geographical locations, but all brought together by our admiration for Clay and the joy that he gives us. Some chatters I connect with more than others, of course, due to personality and interests, which is normal. And who knows? Perhaps real-life friendships will result from some of these online bonds of affection and common interests. I hope so. I think they will.

This morning on YouTube, I discovered a montage put up just hours ago by "suereu", called "Clay, Thanks for the Memories". If you are a Clay fan, you will love it! For a walk back down some of the fun and touching moments of this summer's tour, check it out:



-- ClayKat

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Saturday, August 11, 2007

Oh ye of evil intent, stay away from Clay

Hello everyone,

I debated making this rant-post, but in the end I decided to post it, because this is MY blog and I post what I like, particularly having to do with Clay Aiken and my feelings about him and his work.

I just need to share my anger at some people who for some sick reason, get kicks out of goading Clay, in his very face, in his home-state... Clay's summer tour stopped in Cary, North Carolina last night, and as well as the huge crowd of Clay fans, there was a certain someone in the audience with bad intent, a person who has slandered Clay and made false accusations in early 2006. If that guy - who will remain nameless because I will not provide links nor an easy way to find his garbage - had a shread of decency in him, he would not have bought tickets to Clay's concert, for goodness' sake! He would have stayed far away. It just makes me sad to think how Clay must have felt last night, during the concert, knowing those nasty eyes were on him.

I am happy to learn, despite my and others' feelings about this man, that there were no incidents having to do with him, at the concert. However, the handshake line that Clay often does after his concerts, was cancelled for security reasons. Ah, let's see... what could those be? Could they have to do with the evil-doer? In my opinion - of course that's why the handshake line was cancelled! So thanks to that ill-intentioned guy, hundreds of peaceful, Clay-loving fans did not get to shake Clay's hands - and I bet that Clay himself was somewhat shaken by the situation.

Well, that's enough of a rant for me! I want to focus on the light, the good, people's strength and beauty. Not dwell on the bad things people do in this world. But I needed to get this off my chest today. Who knows. I may delete this post later on.

I hope to goodness' sake that this evening things will be back to normal for Clay's concert in Asheville, North Carolina. I wish this very much, for all of us fans, especially those of you who will be there this evening! And most of all, I wish this for Clay and his family, so they can just enjoy the evening surrounded by love, as it should be.

-- ClayKat

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Saturday, July 28, 2007

I touched Clay! And he touched my heart

Hello everyone,

How fitting is it that this post - my first after I finally passed the 100-post mark - is the one right after my second-ever Clay concert, and the first time where I actually touched him!!

The concert

Where to start? I was hundreds of miles away from my home (no Canadian stops on this summer tour), out in the U.S. countryside and the day was a brilliant blue and sunny, warm and fragrant. Early in the day, I went for a long walk through the town, down by the lake, through the woods, enjoying the moment and looking forward to the evening, when I would see Clay for only my second time ever. After a shower and a rest, I took off to walk to the outdoor venue, down a lane through the woods. On my way there, I met other Clay fans going to the concert, early as I was. Clay fans are one of the groups of people where I feel right at home, surrounded by decent, trustworthy people, even though I don't know them. I don't mean I would blindly trust people I don't know, but it seems to me that anyone who loves Clay has to be - to my mind - a person who not only appreciates his voice but also his values: respect for all people, inclusion of marginalized people in all aspects of life, love of God and of life itself, love for children and animals, social commitment, the importance of giving back to one's community and trying to make this world a better place.

We arrived at the gates just before opening time, at 6:30 p.m. People were already lined up to get onto the grounds - as usual, mostly women, and although there were people of all ages, they seemed largely to be of the 30s - 50s age range. The gates finally opened, and we streamed onto the grounds, visiting the kiosks, filling out the forms to win a first-row seat (I didn't win), buying food and drink, and Clay tour memorabilia. I didn't even have supper that day, it was so hot and I'm not very hungry when it's hot. Also, I was just so excited to see Clay again that that took precedence over everything, including hunger. :-)

I looked for a few fellow Official Fan Club members who were sitting elsewhere, but every time I checked, they weren't in their seats, so we never met up, unfortunately. I chatted a bit with different fans, who were very nice, all from the U.S. - I don't know if there were other Canadians at the concert. And three excited young girls who were there mostly... for Clay's pianist, Jesse Vargas, rather than Clay himself! I kidded them about that.

The venue was not sold out, which was too bad, but I imagine a Wednesday night concert for a stage out in the countryside, must be harder to fill than an urban venue. In any case, what we lacked in numbers, we made up for in energy and enthusiasm, throughout the evening.

Right on time, the orchestra came onstage and began to tune up, followed by Jesse Vargas, Sean McDaniel (Clay's new drummer) and soon after, by fellow/backup singers Quiana Parler and Angela Fisher. And then... The Voice sounded offstage, we did not know where. Everyone began looking all around, down the aisles, off to the side of the stage, the back of the venue... Was he going to come down an aisle? Mingle with the crowd? Excitement was thick in the air, and finally, Clay came out onstage and the crowd went wild!

Clay did pretty much the same songs that we had heard were sung at the other concerts on this tour: many songs from A Thousand Different Ways, a TV-show music medley, a couple of The Measure of A Man classics, and another medley which was a spoof on contemporary pop music hits. I won't repeat the set list, since you can find it on all the major Clay sites - check out especially Clay's Daily Double for all the most up-to-date information - but I would like to share some of my thoughts and feelings as the 2-hour concert flew by.

The last medley actually pleasantly surprised me. I had been expecting to like it, since I love anything Clay does, he always adds that special Clay-twist - but the songs that I had heard were part of that medley, I don't really care for much. So I figured that it would be ok, but not great. Well, I was proven wrong! It was one of the most fun parts of the show. Clay had everyone up out of our seats, clapping, grooving, laughing and thoroughly enjoying his medley. I could tell it was a bit of a spoof on the hit songs, not exactly a tribute to them, especially since Clay had begun by saying that he feels that most contemporary pop music one hears on the radio is "crap" - and yes, I quote him there!

Some of the best moments were, of course, for those of us who know Clay, his banter with the audience and his fellow singers and musicians. At one point he said that he watches too much TV, and he said it is making him fat. A few people in the crowd wooped and shrieked, and Clay said: "What, you're happy that I'm fat??". The bugs on the stage were something else, for some funny reason, and Clay was having a difficult time with them - he seemed to swallow one, and gagged in his mike and laughed with us about it. He batted and swatted them, and Angela and Quiana began taking hits at Clay's back, to get the bugs off him. Someone brought out a can of bug spray, and Clay just ran with it, spraying everyone, including himself, and the surrounding air. It was hilarious!

Clay also shared a stressful-funny moment that afternoon, when they discovered, at rehearsal time with the orchestra, that they had forgotten their sheet music back in Detroit, Michigan! Along with their comfy padded stools for sitting on stage. They were apparently madly faxing and e-mailing the scanned sheet music from Michigan so that the orchestra could play the concert that very day, and began rehearsing only around 4:30... must have been a madhouse! And as for the stools, Clay, Angela and Quiana had basic wooden stools to perch on onstage, undoubtedly not nearly as comfy as their regular cushioned, back-rimmed stools. So Clay began complaining that his butt hurt and he missed their own stools, which were being delivered to them as he spoke, from Michigan. On the grounds before the concert, a local business had given out blue sacks which could be inflated into seat cushions, so some people from the front-row of the audience handed a couple of the sack-cushions to Clay to sit on. After thanking the concertgoers, he tried inflating them by blowing them up and joking that he hoped no one had put their butt where his mouth was! And then what did he do? He handed the cushions first to Quiana and Angela - such a gentleman, so thoughtful! I love Clay for those small gestures. As it turns out, I ended up chatting last night in the fan club chat room, with the woman who had given Clay her sack-cushion at my concert! Small world...

A surprising thing for me was that Clay was really sweating on stage in the midsummer heat and the bright stage lights - one could see the sweat running down his cheeks, his face was glistening and the hair right around his face was stuck to his skin. Clay is always so clean and dry - I have rarely seen him sweat - so that was actually quite funny and sexy to see him all sweaty! I surprised myself feeling that way, since I usually don't like the sweaty look on guys. But Clay looked hawt (no pun intended)!

The concert went by in what seemed like the blink of an eye... but I am so happy I went. It was great to see Clay live again. The man could truly sing the phone book and get us all excited about it - what a great time the evening was! He is a true entertainer, with the most beautiful voice I can ever remember hearing - I'm not kidding! - and such charm and wit.

Before going to the concert I had already decided that I would do whatever I had to to shake Clay's hand. The first concert, I didn't know that Clay greeted his fans after concerts, so I had just left. I had also heard that it was almost impossible at the particular venue I went to this time, since we could not get close to his bus due to a fence all around, but I figured I would ask around and follow the crowd after the concert, and hope...

The handshake

When I got out of the theatre, I saw people gathering in a certain area near the fence, and quickly joined them. Soon, there was a real crush of people - certainly hundreds of the concertgoers stayed! I just saw on a fan recap that venue security estimated the waiting crowd at over 500, perhaps as high as 800 - they had never seen anything like it, nor had they seen an artist who took the time to greet fans in that way.

We were all very excited and lively, chatting and hoping we would get a greet from Our Man. At first we weren't sure it was going to happen, but Jerome (Clay's personal bodyguard during concerts) peeked over the fence and told us, smiling, that yes, Clay would be out to greet us, but we had to be in a line. It took us quite a while to get organized in single-file, which Clay wanted, to be sure he could greet every person waiting there for him - what a sweetie! All in all, we waited about an hour. But the hour went by fast, as we talked about the concert, Clay, sharing our excitement. I was next to a young girl, B., who hadn't intended to be there in the line, but had gotten swept away from her Mom by the crowd - and she no longer knew where her Mom was. She was a delightful young lady with a radiant smile and we talked about all things Clay, how he would be a natural on Broadway, lots of things. After the greet with Clay, I walked with her until she found her Mom again, at the very other end of the handshaking line. I wanted to make sure she was ok and back with her Mom. I know that's what Clay would have done!

Some funny things happened while waiting. We overheard one of the venue security people saying to another: "I actually voted for Ruben [Studdard - winnner of American Idol the year Clay was on, year 2]" - a few of us told him he had better keep that down, he was among Claymates! We kidded him about that. We began a "wave" at our end of the line, but it kept dying down at the middle point of the line. And the Jesse Vargas fans chatted with Jerome, giving him presents - for him, for Sean, and of course, for Jesse.

Now I admit it - I'm a true, diehard fan, have been since "Take..." in January of 2003. Clay's the best, and so even just the possibility of a brief handshake/hand graze meant so much to me. All these years of admiring the young man, loving his talent, his charm, his sense of humour, his charisma, his sensitivity, his social commitment ... Standing there, I could hardly believe that I was to see Clay pass by right in front of me, touch his hand. I knew it would only be a graze as he went down the huge line.

When I finally felt his skin and saw him up close, it was wonderful, though a big blur too. As he touched my hand, I sort of lightly grabbed his hand and held it, saying: "Thank you, Clay!". Then I let go. I realized he's really here, a real man living his life in this world full of love, challenges, pain and beauty. I was glad to be there, and especially, glad that such a person as Clay is in this world... He is a ray of sunshine in a world which is too often, a source of exclusion, injustice, sadness and pain. I choose to build my life around rays of sunshine, light and love - and Clay is certainly part of that in my life.

For all of you going to a Clay concert soon, I hope you enjoy it as much as I did! If you have never been and are wondering whether it is worth it - IT IS! Go, enjoy, live life to the fullest - open your heart to Clay and his voice. And like he says: use your voice for good in this world.

-- ClayKat

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Saturday, July 07, 2007

Clay, here I come!

Hello everyone,

Well, I certainly have been neglecting this blog. But let me reassure you, I haven't been neglecting Clay!

I've been spending my more-or-less-twice-weekly Clay-time in these ways:
  • - keeping up with the latest Clay news by faithfully reading my Bloglines news feeds on Clay, including of course the latest information and clack provided by the wonderful team at Clay's Daily Double
  • - checking my Google Alerts (keyword - of course - "Clay Aiken")
  • - visiting the Online Fan Club (OFC) chat room, where I have met some great people who admire Clay as much as I do - and some of whom I'll be meeting later this month at Clay's concert
  • - preparing for and getting excited about Clay's concert!
Clay's summer 2007 tour, officially called "An Evening With Clay Aiken" and unofficially referred to as "Between a Soft Rock and A Hard Place", began this past Wednesday, July 4th, in Frisco, Texas. I spent the evening in the chat room, because a concert-goer was on the phone with someone having a link to the chat room, such that we got her commentary live from the concert. I didn't think a cellcert (CELL-phone con-CERT) would be that exciting, but it sure got us all going, and now I am so looking forward to my concert, coming up in a few short weeks.

Not only is Clay an incredible musical talent and a model humanitarian, he is a consummate performer and entertainer - such great fun to be with, in any shape or form. And that reminds me - please wish me luck on July 12th: that's when six concert-goers (OFC members only) from my concert will be chosen to attend a Meet & Greet with Clay. I never win anything, so I don't have any expectations, but a girl can dream... Let me know if any of you win, I'll be so happy for you!

I'll be back here before the end of the month at the latest, to share how the concert went!

Take care and enjoy the summer,

-- ClayKat

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Saturday, April 14, 2007

Let's contribute to Clay's Afghanistan Appeal

Hello everyone,

Like Clay fans everywhere, I have been busy reading about Clay's recent trip to Afghanistan, as a UNICEF USA Goodwill Ambassador in Education. The story broke for me through this article on Clay's Daily Double, as usual my first source of news on OMC.

We have known for some time that Clay would be leaving this spring for another UNICEF-sponsored trip, but we did not know where nor when. Tears came to my eyes when I learned of the destination of this last visit - tears of worry for his safety and tears of pride in the commitment shown by Clay to human rights and to ensuring access to education for children the world over. Then I learned that Clay was actually home by the time we had the news - for safety reasons, it wasn't leaked earlier - so that was a relief.

So that explains why Clay has been reading at least two Afghanistan-based novels in the past year - he has probably known for some time that he would be heading there, and wanted to get a taste of life in that country, the history and socio-political situation. Knowing Clay, I'm sure he read non-fiction as well to prepare: books, articles and other sources of information on the history and people of Afghanistan.

UNICEF put out a press release two days ago, in which they let us know of Clay's work in Afghanistan over the previous week. And if you want to know all the details, this press release provides a detailed account of Clay's activities and his thoughts on education in Afghanistan today.

One thing I find fascinating, and which remains with me after reading the interview with Clay which was included in this release, is the positive take Clay shows on what he saw in Afghanistan. He tells us that a lot of good work is being done, communities are getting involved in breaking down barriers and girls are now going to school in numbers unlike what had been seen over the past 20 years - although girls are still at a great disadvantage with regards to education, Clay notes. He describes the beauty of the country and the Afghan people, and his amazement to witness the joy Afghan children and adults have for learning - which Clay contrasts to feelings western kids have about school! Clay is such an incredible young man; he makes a challenging journey, seeks out and finds the strength and beauty in humankind and focuses on that, rather than on the pain and the divisions between people. He knows that the mass media focus on the latter. So Clay looks to build on people's abilities, and share what he has seen with us in North American, rather than have a paternalistic attitude of "oh, those poor people in Afghanistan, everything is bleak, there is no hope, etc. etc.", as some are wont to do.

Upon his return and through UNICEF, Clay has challenged us all to participate, by contributing to the Clay Aiken Afghanistan Appeal: $100,000 in 10 days! When I first read about that appeal, I immediately thought: no way - that much money in just 10 days? Then a half-second after that, I thought: who am I kidding? We're talking about Claymates here - we are generous, and loyal to Clay! We will make him reach that goal, and perhaps more.

Here we are, just a couple of days later, and Clay has already reached 90% of that goal!! Wonderful news. Check out the campaign thermometer here, to see where things are at right now.

Have you made a contribution? It can be for any amount above $10 (for an Internet donation) and here is where to go to contribute:

- if you are in Canada, you want to answer Clay's UNICEF appeal by going here
- if you are in the USA, you can go to this page to make a donation

I hope you will all contribute, even if we help Clay reach the 100% goal by tomorrow! Funds are always needed for educational projects in Afghanistan, and it would be great if by the end of the 10-day period, Clay could say that he reached 200% of his goal!

-- ClayKat

p.s. from April 16, 2007 - check out Clay's field notes from his Afghanistan trip, on UNICEF USA's blog

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Saturday, March 31, 2007

Can't wait for Clay's upcoming concerts!

Hello everyone,

And another month ends yet again. Here in my city, spring has pretty much arrived - we can get snow in April, but it's much less likely now - the sun is out, it smells of grass, leaves and buds, and smiles are on people's faces. As for me, a smile is in my heart, because I bought a ticket this week, so now my Clay-concert-going is official!

For those of you who wonder, I will be attending the concert in ... AnyCity, U.S.A., sometime in July. Seriously, I will be heading down the road (a 8-hour-some bus trip) towards a venue which is well-liked by Clay fans from what I have read, and where some years ago, the infamous "Terry" got Clay's attention during a concert. There - 'nuf hints.

I have read some of the board threads where people are already discussing Clay's song-list. Some are happy, some are not. What can you do? Clay will do whatever he wants, and I will be there, no matter what he sings. Heck, he could sing jazz - don't throw tomatoes, but I don't like jazz - and I would pay to hear him sing. I just love the man and his voice that much. Sing the telephone book, the newspaper, I don't care. I know it will be done well, beautifully done, with humour, love, and the spirit of fun and sharing that Clay brings to everything he does. Bring it on, sweet Clay!

One of the amazing things for me is that the summer concerts - the ones that are closest to me - will be taking place during my vacation time! Couldn't have chosen a better time, Clay! My hubby and I haven't yet decided what we will be doing this year, but I know where I will be for a few days out of our weeks' off, anyway! I won't drag him to Clay's concert since he is not a big fan like I am, but I am looking forward to meeting some of you and some Online Fan Club members at the concert.

Fifteen dates have been set for concerts during this tour, and we were told there would be about 20 concerts, so I imagine some more are yet to be announced. If any will be taking place closer to my city, I'll be there too! I'm crossing my fingers.

In any case, I've got my eye on a tidbit we heard recently as well: that Clay will be singing a Christmas concert on December 7th, in Albany, NY. Tickets only go on sale in September, and when they do, I'll be all over them. My birthday is right around then, Albany is really not far for me, plus it will be a Friday - much easier to take time off work on a Friday, to allow me to get to the concert.

Looks like 2007 will be a year for me to make up for lost time with Clay. I have been a fan since "Take..." at his AI2 audition in January 2003, but I have only seen him once in concert: during the summer of 2005's Jukebox Tour (although Clay has toured some 8 times since 2003, if memory serves me well).

So I am very much looking forward to this year when I will be enjoying this young man's incredible gifts on multiple occasions. Who knows - maybe I'll even get to shake hands with Clay! Hope to see you there!

-- ClayKat

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Saturday, March 03, 2007

Clay, I'm coming for you this summer!

Well, after being away for so long from ClayKat, I almost shouldn't call this a blog anymore! I'll try to be here more often, but with full-time work, family life, volunteer work, social life, health issues, another blog and lots more, let's say that my time is limited... though my admiration for Clay is certainly not!

Plus I'm a member of Clay's official fan club - and they offer a chat room, which is such a great way to share my love of Clay with others -- live! I have been spending most of my "Clay" time there in recent months.

So why blog today? Because I am so excited! I heard this week that two dates have been set for a Clay summer tour... and more to come.


Clay's Daily Double has set up a special 2007 ATDW Summer Tour blog where one will find the most up-to-date information as it becomes available. So far, we are told that Clay will be in San Diego, California on August 2nd and Chautauqua, New York on July 20th. I presume there will be concerts in many other places in between as well (eastern Canada, please, Clay!!).

I'll be on the lookout for more dates & places, with the hope of something closer to home; if not, I'll be off to NY for sure! The amazing thing is that it falls exactly during my vacation time, which makes things much easier for me. For the Jukebox Tour, I had to take a day off work at a busy time, though at least I had lots of overtime hours, so I was able to get permission.

I'm so looking forward to seeing Clay live again... he is the best! The voice, the man, the smile, the personality, the charisma, the banter, the snark!! Claymates, here we come, time for a Clay tour!

In the meantime, here's a thudworthy picture taken - I think - during December's Christmas tour... those gorgeous eyes!! Click on the picture to access the original, large format of the photo. Enjoy!

-- ClayKat


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Sunday, January 28, 2007

A four-year journey... and counting!


Hello everyone,

It seems hard to believe, but it was actually four years ago today that Clay Aiken came into my life - oh, sorry, our lives.

This talented and loving young man doesn't know it, but knowing him has given me so much joy in my life, a greater appreciation for everything, a desire to be better, and focus more on love in every aspect of my life.

It has been an extraordinary journey for us Claymates, following OMC (Our Man Clay) over the past few years, watching him grow as a singer and as a man, and growing along with him, and each other.

I never would have thought I would become a devoted fan of anyone, to the degree I am with Clay - I found that sort of tacky and desperate, before. But when Clay appeared on my tv four years ago, walking out quietly and confidently to sing to Simon Cowell and Randy Jackson (how I wish Paula Abdul had been there that day - I would have loved to see and hear her first reaction to Clay!), when he opened his mouth and pearls of sound came out, I was hooked, then and forever.

I had tape-recorded American Idol that evening, so at the end of the show, I replayed over and over the audition of that geeky-looking kid from Raleigh with the confidence to say he could have been in the previous year's top ten, each time with tears in my eyes. I did so many times for the next few weeks, each week hoping Clay would move on to the next stage of Idol. And despite being voted off at one point, he did make it to the end, the final two officially. But unofficially, he was the real, true winner of American Idol that year - it doesn't seem possible to me that he lost, after having been the only person in the top 10 that year to never have been voted into the bottom three, having received consistently the highest number of votes, etc. The voting system had to be rigged on finale night, for whatever reason at the time, and however that happened technically. I don't see any other way in which Clay could have lost to Ruben, because he was certainly way more popular, and in my opinion - though I do like and admire Ruben - way more talented and charismatic.

Four years later, we know that Clay has generated the biggest fan base, sold the most CDs and concert tickets, of any American Idol top-10 finalist ever (after five completed seasons now!), including the winners - except for Kelly Clarkson, an amazing talent herself.

Regardless, even if Clay had not won in any way over the past few years, I would still love and admire him - the singer, the man, the human being who is such a contribution to peace in this world, just by being who he is.

Congratulations on the past four years, Clay! Here's to at least 44 more! Let's celebrate, ClayNation!

-- ClayKat

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Sunday, January 14, 2007

GoodSearch - search the Internet and raise money for the Bubel-Aiken Foundation

Hello everyone,

I always believe that as much as possible, it's important to show solidarity and contribute to community actions and non-profit organizations. So when I learned about Good Search, which makes donations to charitable organizations upon every search, I always try to do searches from their search engine, rather than just Google everything (although I love Google and all its online services, don't get me wrong! I'm subscribed to lots of Google Alerts and have Gmail and Google Docs accounts, all of which I use regularly).

Whenever you want to find something on the Internet, check out Good Search. When there, in the field which asks "Who do you GoodSearch for?", type in all or part of a charitable organization you want to support and verify that it is in the list of recognized organizations, choose it, then do your search. A donation will be made each time you do a search, and the next time you return to Good Search, if you haven't erased your computer cookies, it will remain memorized.

Because this is a blog about Clay Aiken, I of course want to support an organization that is important to him, and a main one would be the Bubel-Aiken Foundation, which Clay set up in the summer of 2003 with Diane Bubel, and whose mission is "Creating communities where ALL children can learn, live, and play together."

If you have a blog or a Website, you can put a button which will link to Good Search. Check out the button I put in the right-hand column of my blog, which actually links directly to Good Search, with the Bubel-Aiken Foundation as designated charitable organization: GoodSearch for the BAF. If you show the source code of this page, you will see the code to copy and put on your own blog or Website.

Let's work together in small and big ways to make this a better, more inclusive world - as Clay would have it!

-- ClayKat

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Sunday, January 07, 2007

Clay in my dreams...

Well, it finally happened. It was bound to occur eventually, given the big Clayfan I am. I'm not sure whether to be happy or... worried. I dreamt of Clay last night.

Before you go thinking any funny thoughts, no! It wasn't that kind of dream! Though it was sweet and cozy. I don't remember everything, but I do remember being in a big house - not a house I know from somewhere in real life, though. There were a lot of people around, and I recall sitting at a large round table at breakfast, among various aunts and uncles, cousins and other family members of Clay, people of all ages. Lots of people, yet the mood in the house was quiet and peaceful, no stress, no yelling, no loud noises. The man himself was still upstairs sleeping, and I was expecting his Mom Faye Parker to come down any minute to join us for breakfast. At one point I was thinking to myself: "Why am I wearing jeans and a t-shirt? I should have worn nicer clothes than this". Whis is funny, because I never wear jeans. I think I have this idea that southerners dress up more often.

I have vague memories of what had happened the evening before, alone with Clay, and I was aware that there were lots of people in the house. We were lying down and chatting, and I felt so at home with him. He had his former look: the spiky, short hair, and somehow, though he was his current age, I was also his age - about 15 years younger than I am in real life. I remember thinking how much we had in common and how comfortable I felt with him, just being myself. And I even thought of other Clay fans in my dream, telling myself that I almost felt guilty, because other Claymates would so want to be where I was at that moment.

I think I'll leave some other details of the dream for myself - gotta keep some of the mystery personal! Suffice it to say we were decent. :-) I wish the dream had gone on longer. I woke up when Clay and I were talking and sharing an emotionally intimate moment together...

-- ClayKat

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